Sunday, September 21, 2014
You’re not a bad person for the ways you tried to kill your sadness. I really needed to hear that right now. (via ladyduffney)

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Friday, September 19, 2014

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Thursday, September 18, 2014
I don’t want to fuck you. But I do. Like I don’t spend time thinking about it. With other people it’s just always about sex. But you and I actually talk. We have conversations. We can sit and laugh about dumb shit and it doesn’t have to be like “show me your tits”. Bae (via wh0rifical)

ixnay-on-the-oddk:

"My vices have a theme, self destruction, maybe one day my love will overcome my fear"

phemiec:

I’m so impressed by girls who can put together a really cute outfit and do their hair and makeup really nice every single day like if I manage to shower and eat breakfast it’s a damn victory

This is how thoroughly we women have been sexualized, that we cannot make the kind of noises that come with physical exertion without it being associated with sex. In fact, everything about our bodies has been sexualized in one way or another. If we groan during sport or we breast-feed in public, we are criticized for making people think about sex. If we talk openly about things like menstruation and poop and farts, then we are criticized for making people not want to think about sex.

Think about what it means to be ladylike and all of the adjectives that go along with it: elegant, cultured, classy, sophisticated. To be successful at being feminine means being successful at being private, keeping your body’s natural functions behind closed doors and never letting anyone know they exist. It means to be constrained, that you do not let your legs spread wide in public transportation and you do not make noises that are harsh on the ears. It means presenting a polished, shiny surface to the world at all times, one that allows others to project whatever they wish onto you while never showing too much of your true self.
Women’s tennis and the gender politics of grunting  (via health-time)

unretrieved:

and then satan said “here, have feelings”

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Wednesday, September 17, 2014